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- Title: Spirals
- Author : Joan Gould
- Release Date : January 12, 1988
- Genre: Family & Relationships,Books,Nonfiction,Parenting,Social Science,
- Pages : * pages
- Size : 6632 KB
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āA journey to the center of a womanās life.āāMaggie Scarf
āA moving and exquisitely drawn portrait . . . Spirals is about commitment, courage, and the meaning of love.āāNew Woman
āFamily. Familiar. Only my family isnāt familiar at all. My friends are familiar, my friends are as dependable as telephone poles, but the members of my family change in size, looks, powers, burdens and expectations, when all I ask of them is that they remain the same.
Children grow, gather power while their parents lose it, leave home, travel in other orbits. Parents move, remarry or donāt remarry, dwindle away, die. Spouses may stay around for a long whileāmine did, for twenty-eight yearsābut sooner or later they leave.
And I keep changing too, even though Iām the one who stays home. I picture myself in the role of mother, particularly the mother of young children, because this is a self I likeādistracted and short-tempered, I grant you, but well-meaning in spite of outbursts. Still, I have to recognize that this is different from the self who was a daughter or wifeāand these donāt have much in common with the new, apprentice selves, who have to learn a whole set of limits, as mother of adults, mother-in-law, widow and grandmother. One thing these selves have in common, however: Theyāre not the same as my self when Iām alone.āāfrom Spirals